职场上的同事们处事必备之原则

职场上的同事们都希望能在办公室里获得重视，从而得到提升和加薪。但并不是一味的引人注意就可以获得重视和大家的尊敬，很多时候都要讲究原则。

1. Know what you believe in and stick to it. Nothing loses other s respect quicker than inconsistency.

清楚并坚持自己的想法。左右摇摆会让你在别人心目中的形象大打折扣。

2. Keep your distance. Be friendly but not over-familiar. Don t confide^{1 intimate details to your colleagues.}

保持距离，友好却不要太亲近，不要向同事袒露太私人的生活细节。

3. Keep your business to yourself. Don t share all your problems. Even if you resolve them you ll have left the impression that you re indecisive or unable to cope with pressure.

自己的事情自己做，不要事无巨细都向同事请教。因为即使你已经饩隽宋侍猓?慊故腔岣?擞湃峁讯匣蛭薹?娑匝沽Φ牟涣加∠蟆?

4. Don t ask anyone to do anything you wouldn t do yourself.

连自己都不想做的事情就不要麻烦别人去做。

5. Communicate-simply and often.

经常与同事进行简单的沟通。

6. Keep your eyes on the objective.

一直盯住你的目标。

7. Don t get drawn^{2 into colleagues personal lives.}

不要纠缠于同事的私人生活中。

8. Keep cool. Don t respond instantly or say yes to everything.

保持冷静，对听到的任何事情不要立刻表态。

9. Keep your head. A calm presence is an invaluable^{3 asset.}

保持理智，镇定是你工作制胜的法宝。

10. Be good at your job. Know that you re good. Self-respect is the key. It ll show up in the way people deal with you.

做好你的工作，相信自己能胜任。自信是关键，这也会影响到人们对你的态度。

11. Accept that you can t please all the people all the time-or even some of the people all of the time.

承认这个事实：你不能总是让所有的人满意，甚至是总让一部分人满意都很难